There are certain qualities that are vital
to any marriage. Sure, you love one another, but each person has to do their
part to keep the fire going. And it takes a lot of hard work.
This list contains nothing that you don’t
already know, but are all good reminders married to focus on the
things that really matter in a relationship.
Check out the list below and let it be an
encouraging reminder to keep it up!
1.
You are open with each other.
A good relationship is always predicated
on communication. If you and your partner can be vulnerable and open with one
another -no matter the difficulty of the season- the relationship will always
be stronger.
2.
Empathy is everything.
The ideal partner connects with their
spouse on an intellectual, emotional and intuitive level. When all of these
things fall in line, you respect one another on a much deeper and more
substantial level. The empathy and understanding that comes from this approach
is vital to any relationship.
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3.
You work at love.
A good partner knows that love takes work.
It isn’t something that just springs out of the ground. A busy life can lend
itself to a stagnant relationship… make sure and take the time to work on it!
5. You practice active listening.
Active listening means responding to your
spouse when they have something to say.
It’s more than a simple acknowledgment
of what was said… it’s the give and take of
conversation that makes all the
difference. Feeling truly heard is vital to any relationship.
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6.
You're honest.
Honesty, especially in the little things,
makes all the difference in a relationship. A
good partner will be honest with
you no matter the outcome… honesty is most
definitely the best policy.
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7.
You value intimacy.
Every good marriage needs the
connection that comes with intimacy. Whether
emotional or physical it is the building block of a relationship that will last a lifetime.
emotional or physical it is the building block of a relationship that will last a lifetime.
8.
You compromise.
Without a doubt, there will be a decision
that you and your spouse come to,
that will demand compromise. You will not
always agree on everything, and when
those moments come the ability to meet in
the middle is essential.
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9.
Respect their independence, and have your
own.
Maintaining individuality is critical to
establishing a long-lasting, healthy relationship.
It’s essential that you encourage your partner to chase their dreams and to have your
own goals as well. It’s one thing to be devoted to one another, but another to be
dependent.
It’s essential that you encourage your partner to chase their dreams and to have your
own goals as well. It’s one thing to be devoted to one another, but another to be
dependent.
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and courtesy: inspiremore.com